When it comes to celebrating a marriage thirty years after your wedding, it's very common to have feelings of resentment. The reason for this is simple – you're all still together and are all excited about the possibility of having children. However, you also know that the chances are very slim. For this reason, many people just don't feel like they deserve a thirty year marriage anniversary. You should however – especially if you want to get your husband to do that on your behalf.
Your husband is your partner for a very long time. If he was born into a different time and place, he'd likely feel very different. This means that, for him, it's very important that he is able to fully appreciate the love you have for him.
While this can be very difficult if you have moved on in your lives, you need to be open to allow him to know what's changed in your life and what's not. This means you need to spend more time with him, which will allow him to see that you are still there for him. While he may not think much about his own life as much as you might want him to, you are going to have to let him know how much your life has changed for the better over the past few years.
Another great way to get him to do this is to make sure that he knows that you were there for him before. If he had children, he might feel that it's his responsibility to keep the family intact. He's likely to feel much different now that you no longer have any. In order to give him the space and time to remember all the wonderful times you shared, it's a good idea to make sure you were together before the children were born. Let him be aware that he helped out when you were single.
The last thing you need to do is put your children through a huge trauma. If your children don't need them, then you shouldn't be expecting them to be with you for this time. There is nothing worse than being forced to relive your past while trying to cope with the current issues and stresses of your present and future. Make sure you've got a plan to make sure your children are happy during your thirty year anniversary.
Remember, the day will come when your husband is going to say 'I did that' to his new life. You should have been prepared for this!