Happy birthday, buddy! Hope your birthday is full of laughs, great memories, gifts and a delicious calorie-bomb birthday cake! Happy Birthday, pal! Wish your day is filled with laughs and fun shared with friends who understand the basics of happy fun. For some folks, the word buddy is just an acronym for 'best friend.'
That's where it gets tricky. What exactly does that mean? What can a friend do for you? Do you feel like you are a good friend to them? Are they someone you can go to when you need someone to talk to? If you want to make a friend, you have to find out if they are a person who will listen to your problems and help you work through them.
Is a friend always there to help you? Are they always there when you need them? Are they there when you laugh or cry, or when you just need them to be there? You have to know that when you need help, your friend is there for you. Can you count on a friend? When you meet a friend, do they seem like a person who will listen to you? Do they always make time for you to talk about something important?
To make a friend, you have to know who you want to become. You have to be yourself, and tell your friend how you want to be treated. This is not to say that you have to say 'I love you' every time you meet a friend. It does not have to be like that, either.
Ask them questions. Listen to what they have to say. They may tell you things about their life that you never knew. There may be a friend in your life who is very different than the one you were talking to earlier today.
When you do finally make a friend, remember that it has a long way to go. Before you make a friend, you should first make a friend, and then, hopefully, you can make a long lasting friendship that lasts a lifetime.
You know how it goes with the most important relationships: Friends are made when we are forced to be ones that we don't feel comfortable with, and friends are made when those people we once felt uncomfortable with are suddenly around us. And that, too, is true with friends. There are good and bad people everywhere. It is the people around you, who determine whether or not your relationship will last or not.
If you want your friends to stay with you, make sure that you have them in the right place at the right time. In fact, if you have an event coming up where you will all meet for the first time, make sure that you invite a number of your friends as well. Even if there are only two of you in the room at the time, you should invite them so that you know you are not on the receiving end of an uncomfortable situation.
And if you are meeting with a date, ask your date if they can tell you who they are going with. This will save you a lot of time and worry. You can also ask if they will let you know if they are with someone else.
