It is the ultimate day of bliss for me; I am celebrating my 10th Anniversary to my husband. I thought I had to wait for the other shoe to drop, but I was so wrong! Here is how to get over a negative marriage and make your next ten years so much better for you and your husband.
First of all it's time to call and tell him what you want. You know what your want, and what you need. Ask him what he wants to do for his next vacation, and what he would like for your anniversary. When you first started out together it was just a normal day with you and him. But now that you have children it has become more serious, and the marriage has become strained. You two have to communicate and talk to each other as if the children are not there. If you don't you will never be able to fix the problems.
If you have problems with your husband, let him know what you want and what you need, but remember it is important that you have a positive attitude about how things are going in the relationship. It's easy to be negative, but it has a negative affect on your relationship. If you have a negative attitude, it is very likely that your husband will have a negative attitude as well. So it is a good idea to have a positive attitude, but it is also vital that you stay positive and try and have some fun along the way.
The second thing you want to do if you are going to celebrate a happy ten year anniversary is to have a lot of fun. Don't just sit around and watch television. Get up and go out. Plan a picnic, or go to the local park, take a long walk in the morning or take your dog for a nice walk.
If you have kids then you can still take your husband out for a night out, or a nice dinner. Just make sure you plan the date out well. Plan it for a weekend, or an evening. If you do this a couple of times during the year, you will be able to pull off a night out together where he and you are both at ease.
Celebrating a happy ten year anniversary is easy if you work it out. It is not hard, and it doesn't need to be expensive. You two will both be able to enjoy yourselves, you time together and enjoy each other. You can take a walk or go to the local park, go to the store together and just relax. just enjoy yourself!