The 30 years marriage anniversary is a great time to get together and celebrate life together. If you are going to celebrate, you'll need to start thinking about your future and what it means to you in the long run.
Decide what it is you want out of your relationship and put your relationship into the right way to do this. If you feel that your partner needs more attention than you do right now then you can start making changes that will make them happy. If you feel that your partner can't live with you anymore than you can, and you feel like your partner is taking you for granted, then make some changes right away.
It's not a good idea to just decide to get together at the first chance you get. You have to make sure you both have time to plan ahead before you do. Your plan needs to include a timeline of how you will spend the next thirty years of your life together. This is an important step because you don't want to get into a relationship where you get bored over night and just stop doing things.
If you want to have children then you need to start planning for that right away. You need to make sure you get a vasectomy if you have one. This isn't only for you, but for your partner as well because it makes your partner less likely to pass the sperm that would make a baby. You also need to think about any possible complications that could arise from having kids and that means a hysterectomy or any other drastic medical procedure.
When you get ready to get together, you need to set your relationship into the right way to do it. If you think you might not be able to get along in the future, you need to talk to your partner right away and make sure that it isn't a problem that will ruin your life. If you think there is a chance you might end up getting into serious problems in the future with your partner, you need to be ready to talk it over with your partner.
It doesn't take long to make a plan and start putting it into place, but you need to make sure that you do it the right way. You want to take the right steps to ensure that you both enjoy a happy and fulfilling relationship and you need to make sure you can work things out as a lot of people would.